If you’re married and don’t want to end up divorced, you really need to think about something. You know, there’s something holding a lot of people back from fixing their marriages (or their serious, long-term relationships).
It’s the idea that they’ve found the culprit for a bad relationship, solved it, and figure they don’t have to worry about it anymore.
For a HUGE number of people, that culprit (or scapegoat) is bad communication.
It almost seems like EVERYONE blames “bad communication” for any problems that come up in marriage and assume once the communication is fixed then everything goes back to being peachy.
It’s just not the case, sadly.
With that in mind, here are the 8 REAL problems that could easily end any marriage:
People get married because they like each other, and they think that they’ll continue to like each other for the rest of their lives.
The problem is, people CHANGE. Everyone changes, no matter what. Instead of marrying someone for who they are, or who you want them to become, marry them for the person that THEY want to become.
You can’t stop a person from changing – count on that. The best thing you can do is to fall in love with someone who wants to change into someone you love just as much.