#6 Displays of affection. The best way to shower more love on your lover is by letting the world know about it. It’s a little romantic gesture that shows your partner that you’re proud to show them off as your lover to the rest of the world.
Hold hands while walking down a street, brush your lover’s hair off their face, or just snuggle up and read a book together at a café. You don’t need to make out with each other in public if you don’t want to. Just share your love with the world, and your lover will love you more.
#7 Really listen. Lovers talk all the time, but most of them hardly ever listen to each other. Almost always, they just want to get their point across. But remember, you’re in a relationship and both your opinions matter. Really listen to your partner and their views, respect their opinion and never ever rubbish them off even if their thought seems idiotic, and always make them feel like you’re giving them all your attention. You can say ‘I love you’ every day, but unless you actually listen to your lover, you’ll never enjoy a happy and intimate relationship.
#8 Be the pillar to lean on. Love isn’t always about affection and lovemaking. It also has a lot to do with supporting each other and being there for each other through thick and thin. And to say ‘I love you’ and actually mean it, you need to support your lover in their time of need, without getting frustrated or annoyed.
If you want to show off your love, help your lover when they ask you for help, help them become a better person by correcting their flaws, and let your partner see that you’ll always be there for them no matter what.
#9 Back your lover. There’s nothing in the world that feels worse than knowing your own lover doesn’t trust you or support you. It’s heartbreaking.